Be There

You've built great connections, but staying in touch can be tough.

Simmer makes it easier. It's not a social network, just a simple tool that helps you set daily goals to reach out to the people who matter to you. You pick the contacts and frequency and Simmer handles the rest, giving you a nudge to keep those connections alive. A small reminder can go a long way in staying close.

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How do I use Simmer?

  • Each day, we'll give you a nudge.
  • Open Simmer and we'll bring one person to the surface complete with a quick memory jog, a few things you could talk about, and a hint about what you might want to learn next.
  • Reach out, or skip and try someone else.
  • After you connect, we'll help you pause for a moment and capture what mattered.
  • Keep going until you hit your daily goal.
  • Show up like this, one small touch at a time, and your whole network stays warm.

Why Simmer Works

Meet Elle, Your Social Assistant

With Elle as your accountability partner, you'll develop consistent habits that keep your network active and engaged. She'll help you hit your daily goals and keep the streak alive.

Stay Focused, Get Deep

Simmer keeps you focused on quality over quantity. Get your dopamine hits from reengaging people you haven't thought about in a while, and learning from the notes you left yourself last time.

Smart Reminders, Smarter Prompts

Simmer digests your notes into actionable summaries and suggested topics. So you never have to worry about awkward outreach.

🔕 Stay Connected Without the Noise

Simmer keeps you close to the people who matter without the distractions media companies push.

  • No feed, no lines: Focused on relationships, not performance.
  • Smart reminders: Get gentle prompts to reach out before connections fade.
  • Simple check-ins: One tap to log or send a quick message.
  • Clean, calm interface: Designed to keep you focused and highlight what matters.

📈 Build Lasting Habits of Connection

Turn good intentions into consistent action. Simmer helps you form real habits around staying in touch.

  • Streaks and trends: Simple but powerful motivators to keep your focus on social health.
  • Custom intervals: Tune how often you want to connect with your people.
  • Daily "think about" prompts: Nudges that inspire meaningful outreach.

📝 Reflect and Strengthen Relationships

Stop forgetting the basic stuff and little details that matter. Make notes after connections and build a lasting picture of your relationships.

  • Journaling tools: Capture what you discussed, what you learned, and what you should follow up on.
  • Quick tags: Label people with interests, associations, schools, skills, places, or jobs to make finding related contacts easier.
  • Conversation history: Review your previous interactions before reaching out again.
  • Insightful prompts and reminders: Building up context on your relationships means never struggling to come up with reasons to reach out.

👋 Make Transitions Easier

Whether you're graduating, changing jobs, or moving cities Simmer helps you keep your network warm through life's transitions.

  • Contact sync: Import from your phone or email so no one is forgotten.
  • Personal CRM view: See everyone you know in one organized place.
  • Reconnection suggestions: Suggests questions to ask or topics to start.
  • Cross-context notes: Keep track of where and how you met.

🤝 Be There for Others

Good networking isn't about getting ahead. It is about being available and ready when the opportunity arises.

  • Smart reminders: Set your own goals and frequency. Simmer reminds you when its time to reach out, making networking feel natural instead of forced.
  • Check-in prompts: Encourages acts of support, not self-promotion.
  • Accountability cues: Keeps you balanced between outreach and listening.
  • Private-by-design: No public posting, just meaningful connection and reflection.

🔒 Keep your Network Private and Your Own

Simmer is a privacy-first company. Your relationships are for you not some algorithm.

  • Local-first design: Data lives on your device.
  • Secure sync: Encrypted data transfers when syncing across devices.
  • No ads, no tracking: Your activity isn't monetized.
  • Offline access: Review contacts and journal even when you're off-the-grid.
  • No AI Training: Your conversations are your own. We never train models on your notes or usage.

⚡ Designed for Busy People

Simmer makes staying connected effortless so you can show up even when life is full.

  • Smart notifications: Remind you to reach out at the right time.
  • Quick actions: Record contact and reflect in seconds.
  • Lightweight onboarding: Start with a few people, or everyone and refine your list as you go.
  • Adaptive scheduling: Simmer adjusts prompts based on your activity.

Launch Whole Cohort Networks

Empower your graduates to maintain the connections that make your program thrive.

  • Simmer makes a great value-add for any professional program.
  • Custom onboarding links: Simplify setup for cohorts.
  • Alumni partner support: Co-branded onboarding and networking materials.
  • Privacy controls: No data shared between users or institutions.